It's okay if you do something that hurt someone without knowing you will.

But if you choose to do it whereby you know that it'll hurt someone's feeling, that's unacceptable. 

Because you had a choice, and you choose to hurt that someone. You get what I mean?

I don't wanna say anything because I keep telling myself there's a reason behind why you choose to do that.

As much as I tell myself that, I know what excuses I will get. So I won't bother. 

And I want to be a good and understanding person. 

All in all, it's all about the cliche old thing. "it's good to be asked"